In the time of our parents the word āvirginā was very sacred and sacrosanct in terms of finding a wife; a lady being a virgin instantly qualified her to be more of a wife material than ladies who werenāt virgins and would get her a lot of attention from men, hence multiple suitors.
Some men in our generation have a different mindset or cognitive approach towards virgins. They believe that they are a lot of work, they arenāt fun, they are too uptight and the most obvious reason they donāt have s*x.
A lot of breakups or relationship issues can be attributed to the girlfriend being a virgin or celibate because this puts a strain on the physiology of men who can not hold out on s*x like most women do.
A common scenario; āKemi : Ladi, my friend thinks your fine, she likes you. Sheās a virgin though.
Ladi: virgin ke? I donāt want. Sheās long!!ā
This is a very common statement with guys these days which leaves some ladies who are virgins wondering if their sexual status is a plus or minus? The honest truth is that a guy who is serious and wants a serious relationship wouldnāt be bothered about sexual status because heāll get all the s*x he wants after marriage only guys who want flings and donāt want any emotional attachment run away from virgins.
Fellas, letās not allow a ladyās sexual status dictate how we meet or relate with our potentials. Personality, attitude amongst other traits should serve our blueprint or wheel. Ladies if any guy canāt accept you for being a virgin, celibate etc then heās clearly not the one.
You donāt need to conform to any pressures from guys, thereās always a guy out there who will wait for you and still appreciate you in waiting or not waiting. Do what makes you happy and is in your best interestā¦.. Pls note dt āLadiā as used here is a name of someone and not the āLadiā synonymous to āiranuuu, ehn abasha.āā¦ā¦.